Booking your Session FAQs
Availability
My primary private incall BDSM dungeon, The Lair, is located in the suburbs outside of Philadelphia. I require a minimum of 4 hours notice to schedule in this location and work Sunday evening through Friday evening. My secondary shared location, The Aviary, is located in South Central PA near Harrisburg. Requesting to Session at The Aviary is subject to availability — this is a shared space and requires a minimum of 24 hour notice to ensure the space is not already being used. Outcall is available with 24 hour notice to areas within a 2 hour drive from My Philadelphia location.
Booking Process
The first step is filling out My Session Application. Take your time and fill it out completely- incomplete or incoherent applications will be ignored. I will respond within 24 hours to discuss My availability, your interests, screening, and deposit requirements - didn't get a response from Me? Check your SPAM/JUNK folder.
20 minute paid consultation calls to discuss your interests and background are available by request for $100. Once your screening and deposit processes have completed you are confirmed and in My calendar. See more about rates and deposit policies HERE.
Communication Policy
I like to build a relationship with you and will often engage in friendly chatter before/after Our session; however, I ask that you be respectful and mindful of My time. I have scheduled days and times to complete admin work and will answer any questions I get within those timeframes.
Screening
I have multiple ways of screening available. The first is providing two references of previous Dommes you have seen within the past two years. If you do not have references or your references do not respond additional ways of screening are available that will be discussed privately.
Gifting
While gifts aren't necessary they are always a very sweet gesture I appreciate. If you'd like to bring a gift to Our session and aren't sure where to start, visit My About page and Gift The Dark Queen section for a peek into My world and the things that bring Me joy.
Which kinks are Your favorites?
People often come to Me asking whether I do a specific kink — and the honest answer is that I enjoy a wide range of kinks and fetishes— and My list is long. But what makes a session exciting to Me is the power exchange we explore and the control you give to Me in that space. The energy, the trust, the push and pull of dominance and submission playing out in real time. That is what I enjoy most.
Can I take You to dinner before our session if I am nervous?
Yes, I offer dinner or coffee before we play at a special rate so you can feel more comfortable before we begin. Or you can bring Me coffee and we can chat for a bit before we dive into play. This is great for new people beginning their journey.
Do you play with other genders besides Men?
Yes, while My marketing is catered to the broadest audience I love playing with people of all genders!
My Limits
What is NOT allowed?
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Do not touch Me without My permission
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I do not allow ass or genitalia worship/licking/kissing
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All of My sessions are CFnm which means I will be fully clothed
What kinks do You not offer?
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Intox or smoking fetish (I am asthmatic and cannot offer it but have colleagues who do)
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race play
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FTT
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branding or permanent scarring
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needles
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I am not a submissive and don't offer play as a switch/bottom/submissive
Basic Rules
Basic Rules
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Use My preferred honorifics - you can find mine HERE
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Familiarize yourself with My limits
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Practice good hygiene for Our playtime - freshly showered, wearing deodorant, no heavy scented colognes or perfumes
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Hydrate and eat a few hours before We meet
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Stretch your body before We play to mitigate cramps
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Familiarize yourself with any special tasks you may need to do to prepare for your specific scene - if you are unsure ask Me
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Our session begins at the time We agreed to - if you come early I will not let you in, if you come late you may lose that time if my schedule cannot accommodate